Now I really feel loved that so many people bothered to read all 2000+ words of that last entry and then comment lol. I’ve commented on all the personal sites with obvious commenting places/tag boards just to show my gratitude :love: To answer someone’s comment (sorry I’ve forgotten whose lol), yes I was really pissed off at the time, but now I’ve had a while to actually absorb everything, I can at least laugh at some parts. The ‘revenge’ didn’t quite come off as well as I expected (hoped), but at least I tried
I went driving in my car with my dad yesterday, which is something I rarely do because we tend to piss each other off (him by telling me all the things I’m doing wrong, and me by arguing). I must be getting better though because he actually seemed fairly pleased
And I have to say, I do feel a lot more confident (I expect the other drivers on the roads near me do too now!). My driving has actually improved quite a lot, which I have to say I’m pretty surprised about since most of my driving lessons involve random driving with me not concentrating and 2 hours’ talking with Matt about the world in general. My dad was working it out, and I have had about 70-80 lessons (hours?) so maybe all that ‘practice’ is the reason why haha. It’s good therapy though; my life seems to be finally calming down again now, with offline and online drama disappearing (touch wood).
At the moment, I have a resolution to be much more positive about things in general since I tend to moan a hell of a lot. As I pointed out to Em the other day, it’s mainly because I’m partly Iranian, and that’s what Iranians do. It’s a culture thing. It really is. All the Iranians I know (although come to think of it, there’s not that many) complain even when there’s nothing to complain about. Put me, a partly Iranian feminist (possibly the only one in the world) in a room full of 17-19 year old guys supposedly doing A level Geography and I moan a hell of a lot more
For example, there really is no need to say ‘female farmer’ in a textbook. ‘Farmer’ is just fine. Yes, it may seem small, but trust me, I complain about everything
Especially when I need to defend women in general to a room full of guys
But anyway…my ‘be positive’ approach is working well so far. I feel generally more relaxed and calmer, and it’s less time consuming than taking up yoga
I think it will have a good effect on my driving too, since I tend to get very angry behind the wheel (although definitely not as angry as people who will end up underneath it if they piss me off any more).
Got loads to do as usual…I will try my best to return all comments again, it didn’t take me as long as I thought :love:

*waves* Hi, I'm
Everyone loves your Jenni! You’re a sweet and kind person. You’re not rude to visitors, unlike some people. -ahem-
wow it was 2000+ words ! holy cow! I didn’t realise! lol.. heh, i still read it
lol…. Good to be more positve about things..:love:
Must have taken you some time to return 30+ comments, I nbever have the paitence
I didn’t think you were the type that would moan a lot. Lol! Good on you for sticking up for us girls.
It thought it would have taken you ages to return all the comments on the previous entry. Oh, and good luck on getting all your stuff done.
That’s great about your driving! lol, good job =)
I used to angry about really stupid things a whole lot, but I don’t do it as much anymore =). I hate it when my dad points out all the wrong things I do, lol.
That’s a lot of driving lessons! You must be rich lol!
I hate feminism lol, i wish we could go back to the days of say pride and prejudice where marriages were arranged by our parents for status, and women were admired for being women and not because they’re trying to prove something to men. I think feminism has gone too far and now guys seem to be getting a raw deal. I think I’m the only girl i know who thinks like this, and that upsets me a little. (Bet I’m unpopular with you now lol! :sick: ) I won’t argue with your views though, i don’t like to do that to people. I like the fact that everyone has something they believe in themselves.
Anyway, good luck with the driving and sorry the revenge didn’t go as hoped.
That was really sweet of you, love. You should feel loved everyday
I’m glad your driving is getting better, I still need to get my permit
Haha, I complain loads as well
Aww Jenni
Everyone loves you hehe
Glad everything is getting better for you
xxx
Thank you so much for commenting on my site!! Hollie is right! Everyone loves you lol!
I’m glad you r cheering up! :crazy: :blush:
Lots of driving lessons! I wish I could drive… oh well I can get my permit in August! Hehehe
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Hey Jenni! I just finished reading your last entry, it didn’t take as long as you made it out to be! Anyway all I want to say is that guys can be such jerks! I’m sure you’ll find the right one soon enough!
Wow it is so great to hear you’re doing great too!! This morning I woke up thinking…”this is it…i’m sick of living this way” So i just cleaned my damn room and i actually view life in a more positive…(insert word that i forgot here) X__x…thanks for the tag too!! Hehe it’s like the God of the websites visited mine o_o; Anyways, I really hope things start getting a lot better than what you stated!!!! Yippeeee!!!! HOORAY FOR THROWING AWAY PESSIMISM!!!! XD Hehe >.>
Aww I just now read your whole last entry. Woah… I hate it when guys use girls for ‘things’. It happened to me. Trust me, it’s not a pretty thing.
Whoa thats a lot of driving lessons! Have you set a date for your exam yet?
I’m glad you got lots of comments
Comments rule the world! I saw I got a comment from you, and felt loved. Hee hee
Yeah people like to show their love round here :love: I didn’t read the entry myself though
Well done on the driving, only a few years until I’ll be out there, god help my neighbours :blush: hehe. I can’t blame you for the moaning thing, I used to be like it in graphics when I was stuck with some idiot boys, don’t worry, they get used to it
Shows you’re strong willed heh!!
Aww
ah, how come not all of my comment show up, only the “aww?”
sory for posting a 3rd time, but here’s what i was going to say…. jenni, you’ve inspired me since my site was crappy an unpopular and w/o you my work wouldnt be as good as it is today! thank you! you should feel loved! :love:
Hehe glad the ‘be positive’ aproach is workin out for you so far! Glad that your driving’s getting better! lol Also I hope your to do list becomes smaller!
Lol, good luck with your new “be positive” resolution! I do that now.. just think positively about everything, it’s so much easier and causes less stress so good luck with it and I hope it makes you feel better about yourself
Aw. Thanks for comment. It must take you ages to return them all!
You’ve put me in a positive mood now
I’ve realised I’ve been moaning too much recently too. I should be more serene
hehe
That’s so awesome. Wow so many lessons! I can’t wait till I drive… but it’s 18 here and I’m only 14.
Yeah, I agree, with how people say ‘female farmer’ maybe they’re doing it so we realize they’re not anti-women or wahtever, but that comes out as rude and unnecessary.
Hey i havn’t commented on your last few blogs :shocked: oops!
Well i’m glad you found a way to get revenge but really not, well you don’t really know do you? :crazy:
I think everyone moans a lot, well i do quite a lot, but i find ‘oh its bloody freezing’ to be a good conversation starter!
:love::love::love:
Hehehe…
Seems everything is back on track again yay! i got my new doggy hehe but its destroying the house
lol oh well Loving your site as per usual
XxX
Good luck on the “be positive” thing:) I’ve tried that before, didn’t really work out that well, so I’ve started being realistic instead. Well, more pessimistic, but whatever:P
Glad the driving went well LOL! Parents, especially dads, seem to be pissing off their kids all the time, so it’s probably just the way they are:P But I don’t really get why they are that way:crazy: Bah, whatever! Hope you’ll get everything done:love:
Glad you know everyone loves you, you desrve it :love:
Cya!
I might see you driving down the road soon! lol. When are you taking your driving test?
I kinda agree with the whole feminism thing, though I think some of it goes TOO far lol.
Anyways, gald your feeling more positive in general
People love you more than you think, Jenni.
It’s great that your driving is getting better and that your life is getting less hectic
Glad things are improving for you!
Glad you returned the comment before, it was muchly appreciated :blush:
Im also glad everything is getting better now =D
I got your message that you will pray for my friend who has cancer. You also said that your dad’s friend has cancer to. I am so sorry about that. And you are so right that it happens to people who so dont deserve it. look at all those terrorists who are alive and healthy… :grr:
Glad 2 know ur fine and that ur driving is getting better!
Luckily the Be Positive approach is workin 4 me…I still need improvement, lol 
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Glad 2 know ur fine and that ur driving is getting better!
Luckily the Be Positive approach is workin 4 me…I still need improvement, lol 
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Sometimes dads can be the worst people to go driving with…I used to have the same problem with mine, lol
Thanks for the comment back on my site!
Glad you’re feeling better anyway, and that you’re feeling more confident with your driving!
Your a well liked person I can see by all these lovely comments…lol
I cant wait to learn to drive it must be loads of fun, well not when you and your dad argue but still!
Luving the site xxx
Wow you have alot of driving lessons/hours. Great that you’re improving! And im glad you and your dad got along too. And I think moaning makes blogs interesting lol! x
Wowie..I know how you feel! My dad does the same. He freaks if I do something wrong and then we start arguing and I’m hitting the brakes and gas and OMG! Watch OUT!
Lolz! ‘Nuff bout meh! I’m glad everything went great with your driving! That’s ALOT of hours! Eeek!
Ha ha. I wish I could drive.
You’re part Iranian? I never knew. . .I probably should read the “Jenni” section more attentively. Can you speak Farsi?. . .I can say “bread bathroom” in Farsi. . .Hee I’m being very random and probably annoying. . .
It’s good that you got to drive relaxed
My father and I tend to argue when he is trying to teach me something, or when I am in the car while he is driving. It must be a natural ordeal.
I have been trying to be more calm and relaxed lately. I complain too much and I mope around frequently. So yea, just keep trying to stay relaxed, calm and positive. You will still have down days but just try and learn techniques to deal with it until you get back into a happy mood.
I’m glad you have got all the drama sorted out
-touches wood- Glad your driving is getting better, I wish I could even attempt :sick: Theres nothing wrong with moaning, its fun. Although annoying to some, its fun… go Feminists
Hehehe…. Just properly red blog soz i posted yestaday in a hurry anyway yup everything seems more positive
hehe
Awww, returning comments can take a while sometimes, eh? You’ll manage.
Ooh, driving! I have a whole nother year to go before I can even start taking lessons, my my big brother has that Learning license so he can drive if there’s a qualified driver beside him. Congrats to you for getting better at it! My bro certainly does NOT make it seem easy.
I’m not really a feminist, but glad to know some people really stand up for women
Go Jenni!
So that’s it for now, buh-bye!
I completely agree about the femalefarmer thuing….bloody sexist men. xx
Yay for Jenni!
Stupid Geography textbook. You must have alot of patience gud on you for returning all those comments. Thanx for the loverly comment 
Btw this sounded better the first tme but the stupit scl computor crashed :grr:
Hey, wow i haven’t commented for a while, i’ve been busy too. I haven’t started driving yet, but ‘m sure when i get in a car with my dad he’ll be as scrutinizing as yours :p I’m not sure if Iranians are arabs….but the same thing goes with us lol. We HAVE to complain…because complaining is better than having an awkward silence? lol no i don’t know why, but yea its the same. I don’t think you complain too much in your blog
But i could be wrong, the complaining could just be overshadowed by how funny your blog is….lol really, some people’s blogs are very boring (mine for instance
) but theres always something in your blog thats hilariously sarcastic or just plain hilarious. I lve your site SO much its not even funny! I don’t kneed to say keep up the good work, because i know you will
I complain about alot of things too… that actually might be a good personal goal for me to try right now. LOL.
I do Yoga, and I still complain.
I just do it for the fun and physical results though. Hehe